An Irish Honeymoon

It seems like a dream after almost 23 years. Even while we were there, driving the twisting country roads — inevitably lost — Ireland had a dreamlike quality that made it perfect for a honeymoon.

Bunratty Castle

Bunratty Castle where I drank way too much mead!

Friends were surprised at our plans to honeymoon in Ireland. “But you aren’t Irish,” they said, foreheads wrinkled with puzzlement. Why do people assume the only reason to go to Ireland is to look for roots? In Ireland, everyone asked if we were Irish. When we said we weren’t, they would say “Are you sure?” We said we were sure. It turned out one of us was wrong.

Ireland was wonderful. From Dublin to Sligo, through Shannon, Galway, Cashel and all the lovely cities and villages in between, everyone we met was friendly and welcoming. When folks learned we were honeymooners, we were treated to free rounds of drinks, desserts, and upgraded accommodations — at no charge. Even on the airplane, we were moved up to first class. Way to go.

We stayed in bed and breakfasts. Using the National Tourist Board guidebook and a road map, we’d zero in on a destination and phone ahead. Every place we stayed was spotlessly clean and comfortable, although often tiny by American standards.

In Dublin

In Dublin

Our first stop after Shannon was Cashel. The B&B was like a miniature European hotel. Set in the shadow of the Rock of Cashel, adjacent to the ruins of a medieval Dominican church, the location was picture perfect. We stayed two nights, then headed for Dublin.

Dublin, after we found our way through the one-way streets and detours, was a great walking city. Awful traffic, but great for pedestrians. There were evenings at Foley’s where they played Irish music every night and we all joined in, each in our own key. We found pubs where the Irish Coffee and Guinness flowed and everyone was eager to wish us well and advise us on our itinerary. We shopped, sang, and drank. We listened to stories, told some of our own, and would have stayed another week if we’d had enough time.


Garry with the Isle of Innisfree in the background (Loch Gill)

At one point, we were searching for the Stag’s Head pub, one of the oldest pubs in Dublin and definitely the most difficult to find.

Mosaic outside alley leading to Stag's Head Pu...

Mosaic outside alley leading to Stag’s Head Pub, Dublin (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

It’s down an alley, marked by a tiled piece of sidewalk showing a stag’s head … so of course, we couldn’t find it. We asked the first person we bumped into for directions.

The Stag's Head - a classic Dublin pub

The Stag’s Head – Great pub, hard to find

“Excuse me,” I said.

He looked at us and said to my husband “You’re Garry Armstrong! I know you.” He was an American exchange professor from Boston University spending a year at Trinity College in Dublin. Go figure.

From Dublin, we drove cross-country to Sligo. As we entered Sligo, the rain began to pelt down. For perhaps five minutes, it poured. Then, as the rain slowed to a drizzle, in front of us appeared a brilliant double rainbow. I felt that it was our personal rainbow, welcoming us to Sligo.

Sligo is bursting with magic. You can feel it as you explore the ancient earthworks, standing stones, cairns, and castles. I was convinced the “Little People” lived there still.

Loch Gill, where lies the minuscule Isle of Innisfree, has its own magic. We spent a grand afternoon exploring the recently restored Park Castle. The crystal waters so clearly mirrored the sky it was hard to tell where the sky ended and the water began.

Loch Gill from Park Castle

Loch Gill from Park Castle

Later that same day, while heading toward Knocknarea, the mountain top cairn of the legendary Queen Mab, we met Gordon Winter, ex-spy (?), author, and local character. We took pictures with his pet chickens, sipped tea in his kitchen, and bought an autographed copy of his book “Secrets of the Royals.” Scandals of royal families back to Henry II. Somewhere in our overstuffed bookcases we still have the book.

Garry with the author and his pet chickens

Garry with the author and his pet chickens

Our destination was a bed and breakfast called Rathnashee, which we later learned means “fairy ring.” Indeed there was an earthwork fairy ring in the field adjoining the house. I had selected it because it had a room with a private bath, was on a main road and the parlor was a library. Evenings, by the warmth of a peat fire, with a pot of tea and a plate of cookies, we read about Yeats, the Great Hunger, and the long,often tragic history of the north. I dreamt of fairy circles and magic mountains.

Loch Gill

By Loch Gill

We visited the cemetery where Yeats is buried and I took pictures. When we got home and showed the pictures to Garry’s dad, he pointed to a set of markers behind Yeats’ headstone and said “Those are your grandmother’s people.” Which is how Garry learned he did, after all, have Irish roots, an interesting revelation which brings me to another odd encounter.

Horseman, Pass by!

Horseman, pass by!

Donegal was where we spent money and had a peculiar chance meeting. In 1990, Donegal was not a metropolis. I have no idea how much it has grown, but then it was one road, a pub, a few shops and some old stone houses. I was ever alert for shopping opportunities and when I saw a sign advertising tweeds and other woolen goods, we pulled over.

Garry in Cong

Garry in Cong

As we were walking toward the shop, we were stopped by an elderly gentleman who looked like he had stepped out of “The Quiet Man.” From his worn tweed cap to his rubber wellies, he was the picture of every tourist’s dream of Ireland.

“Are you Irish?” he asked me.

“No,” I said. “Eastern European Jewish,” I said.

Then he looked at Garry. “You are Irish,” he said.

Garry looked down at his brown arm and said, “I don’t think so.”

“You are Irish,” he insisted. He was very firm. How he knew, I cannot begin to guess, but he was right. Garry is as much Irish as anything else.

The shop was closed, but a sign said “If no answer, check pub across street.” We did, found the shopkeeper, ate lunch, then went back to the shop. A good day. But all our honeymoon days were good.

Rainbow in Sligo

Rainbow over Sligo

The weather never stopped changing. The sun shone, disappeared and reappeared in rapid succession. Wind blew, and clouds rolled in and it rained. A few minutes later, the sun came out, the temperature rose. By the time you took off your jacket, it was raining again. Our second morning in Sligo, we awoke to pounding rain. I peeked out the window to see another rainbow in the field across the road. Sligo, county of rainbows.

By the time we went to breakfast, the sun was out, but by breakfast’s conclusion, it was drizzling. It never rained all day, but it rained a little every day. We learned to ignore weather, counting on the ever-changing skies to give us time to wander through a ruin, scale a castle wall, or walk by a river.

Downtown Cong, September 1990

Downtown Cong, September 1990

After three days in Sligo, we traveled down through County Mayo to Cong where John Ford shot “The Quiet Man.” Being movie buffs, we literally climbed over fences and tramped through pastures until we found the “quiet man’s cottage” in ruins. I hear they have rebuilt it, but there was nothing to rebuild … it was gone.

The setting was easily identifiable if you know the movie. The stream flows past what was the cottage door and under the little bridge.

Clearly the movie was the only thing to ever happen in Cong, so it’s full of Quiet Man memorabilia. The locals were full of anecdotes.

Abbey ruins near Ashford Castle

Abbey ruins near Ashford Castle

Our time was almost up, and as we continued down along the coast, we realized we had to go home. The idea was so depressing we stopped in the next pub for solace.

Probably the only difficult part of our Irish honeymoon was driving. Keeping left was one problem; the roads were another. Narrow, with a terrifying mix of blind curves, roaming sheep, and meandering cattle, local people nonetheless drove at frightening speeds. On roads barely wide enough for our compact car, we were overtaken and passed. More than once we felt obliged to check to see if the door handles and mirrors were still attached.

Somewhere in Ireland

Somewhere in Ireland

On the plus side, virtually every intersection, no matter how rural, was sign-posted, albeit sometimes in Irish. Ultimately, soothed by the beauty, we relaxed and let the road take us where it would. We learned you don’t need to know where you are all the time. When we needed to stop and rest, there was always a pub and some friendly faces.

Signs in Irish are full of bullet holes

Signs in Irish are full of bullet holes, apparently a political statement by lost tourists or maybe aggravated local residents

You don’t have to be Irish to fall in love with Ireland. We always hoped to go back, but it doesn’t seem we’ll get there. We remember, though … not quite as if it were yesterday, but clearly enough. And we have pictures. Many, many pictures.

Note: All my pictures in this post are scans. 1990 was pre-digital and  time has not dealt kindly with these photographs.

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12 replies

  1. This is absolutely fantastic! Never been to Ireland but do have plans in the making only if hubby’s health improves. Anniversary present! We’ll just see what we’ll see!

    Now I have to get this post to Rosemary Adkins. She is the author of Extraordinary Dreams of an Ireland Traveler. Here is her blog:

    She is working on another book so she hasn’t posted in awhile.


    • It’s wonderful! I’m sure it has changed in the more than 20 years since we were there, but I’ll bet not as much as other places and I’m sure the people are still just as nice. Definitely a goal worth pursuing.

      On Wed, Feb 13, 2013 at 11:27 PM, Serendipity


  2. So great to see those pictures again!! What a wonderful time we had!!!!!!


  3. What a great story! Isn’t it interesting how going back through your archives of old photos that it instantly gets you to remember the chronological order of the events, and all of the little details of the things that you experienced – even many things that are not actually shown in the photos.


    • We used 27 rolls of film on that journey! I think I chronicled every waking moment. Obviously Garry snapped a few too. I wish I’d gotten better prints because they are fading badly, even though I’ve done everything I can to protect them. Time is having its way with them. I should scan as many as I can while there’s something to scan. Isn’t it ironic that much older photos are in better condition because they were printed using superior paper and chemicals.

      That was a major excursion down memory lane … and as I was looking for this batch of pictures, there were so many more that made me say, “Oh wow, I remember that …” Maybe they’ll be stories later. That was a lot of work, so I’m going to take a pause before my next really ambitious production. Glad you enjoyed it. It was quite a trip … both the original trip and the reliving of it!


  4. What a really sweet post!! 🙂


    • It was one of those days when I didn’t know what to write, so I was going through my archives … and realized this has been in my files for more than 20 years. It was, before revision, published in a local newspaper (The Irish Reporter, of course) in 1991, but since then, it’s just sat. Ultimately, I got ambitious and pulled out the photo albums, scanned pictures and it ended up taking me all day and part of the evening.Made me remember that once upon a time, I really enjoyed traveling. Spent a couple of months in England and Wales, too … and I got married in London. Long ago and far away.

      On Tue, Feb 12, 2013 at 10:08 AM, Serendipity


  5. O my God. The experience of a lifetime.
    Yuv GOT the pot o’ gold Dear … and it twern’t at the end that rainbow!



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