A Place of Peace

Despite all the blogs and bloggers who have posted articles on the etiquette of commenting, too many people still don’t get it. Maybe they just don’t want to understand, because it isn’t so complicated.

I got a really nasty note yesterday from an individual who took issue with something I wrote. I think she didn’t even understand how rude she was. Another — even nastier comment — expressed displeasure with my failure to address his comment — 3 months ago. The original comment was insulting (which is why I didn’t respond). Today’s follow-up was much worse.

In both cases, the result was identical. Bye bye. You’re out of here. Don’t come back.

This is not a forum, public or otherwise. This is my personal blog, my website. My little piece of peace in a nutty, wacko cyber world. In this place, we discuss, but we don’t fight. If I don’t like your comment — for whatever reason — I can choose to not publish it, delete it, edit it … or call it spam and make it so you trouble me no more.

It doesn’t mean you aren’t free to disagree. You are welcome to disagree. Politely. Reasonably. Friendly. But if you feel like sniping, insulting me, calling names, think this is an opportunity to show how smart you are at my (or anyone else’s) expense? Bye bye.

If you do not appreciate what I have to say or how I say it, no one is forcing you to read it. You don’t have to look at my pictures, read my opinions, like me or follow me. Cyber space is infinite and you are welcome to be virtually elsewhere.

I do not have to take crap from you. Not here. In the rest of my life, I deal with all the stuff I don’t like. In this place, this tiny corner of the huge universe, I hold fast to an illusion of control. I don’t think it’s too much to ask.

In this place, this space, we dwell in peace and harmony, even when we differ.



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10 replies

  1. Hurrah for peace and harmony and the ability to delete comments! πŸ˜€

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  2. I had a comment ready to go in my mind, then I read your reply to calipatti and you said exactly what I was about to say!
    Some people have nothing better to do than attempt to pseudo-anonymously hurt other people. What a sad and insecure life they must lead.

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    • There really are people who spend their days trolling for trouble. This was especially bizarre. One subject was … (drums, fifes, trumpets) … an episode of a network TV show. The other one took issue with my belief that even with eternity I was unqualified to fix the troubles of the world. The first said I was a coward for failing to answer his original comment in which he told me I was stupid and clearly in need of meaningful work (like trolling the internet?). The other accused me of arrogance for explaining that I never said I don’t care, only that I can’t fix it. It harkens back to one of my basic rules for survival on earth: DON’T ARGUE WITH STUPID PEOPLE. Deleting them was a deeply satisfying moment, my personal Dirty Harry experience. Ah cyber elimination! How sweet it is.

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  3. I promise to behave, lol. You have such a beautiful site it is difficult to understand anyone wanting to fight with you.

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    • There are people who troll the internet starting trouble. I suspect they don’t have much of a life. And some people really don’t have a grip on the difference between disagreement and disparagement, It doesn’t happen too often because I can usually spot a troll. But sometimes, a couple get through. Two in the same number of days is very unusual. Coincidence, but it reminded me to be cautious. I got careless. It’s been quite a while — months — since I got one of these nasty people. I made them go away. I really love that power. I wish I could do it with some in the flesh pains in my whatever πŸ™‚

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