I am a pebble. Drop me in the water and ripples spread along the surface, marking where my pebble began its descent. Then the water closes. The ripples vanish, leaving nothing to show where the pebble sank.
Unlike the pebble, I plan to resurface. I’m just not sure when, exactly.
We all sign up for stuff with full intentions of fulfilling our obligations. But sometimes — often — life gets in the way of art. Shit happens. We have to adjust. Commitments and projects are set aside for later or for others to do. A lot of stuff I planned will have to go on without me for a while.
I like to think you will miss me, but I know the Internet is rich with bloggers, websites and news. It moves on. I’m just a pebble on that huge beach strewn with millions of rocks.
I follow a lot of you. I don’t always comment, but when you allow it, I leave a “like” as a calling card. Those of you who don’t accept “likes” do yourselves a disservice. Many folks — including me — don’t always have something to say. It doesn’t mean we didn’t like your post. Sometimes I just don’t have anything valuable to contribute. Other times, there are hundreds of comments in place which have covered the bases. I’m not going to add anything to the dialogue. If you let me click “like,” you will know I was there. If you don’t … well … your loss.
Now, about my site. Exactly how I’m going to keep it going while I’m recuperating, I don’t quite know. I know part of it. Garry will write more, Rich will pitch in more too. I’ll try to create some posts to go up when I’m not up to doing new material. I hope you won’t stop coming by. Rich and Garry are great writers and deserve your support, especially since they are supporting me on top of their other obligations.
For the blogs I follow, everyone will be set to “no mail” until I’m well enough to deal with it. I’m afraid my inbox will explode otherwise. It will be bad enough with only bills and junk mail. When I think about how much could pile up in weeks and months … well, formidable doesn’t cover it. I will also set my scheduled posts to “no comment. ”
You will still be able to leave a “Like” because I love knowing you visited. All of this is intended to keep my email from overwhelming Garry, who is going to have a lot on his plate. When I get back on the computer, I don’t want to be faced with thousands of notifications. I’ll just delete them en masse anyway. That’s what happens when I get back from vacations, too, and I always lose stuff I would I wanted. Don’t take it personally. It has everything to do with me and nothing to do with anyone else.
I have turned off a lot of stuff already and I don’t have time to do much visiting. I’m sorry about that. It’s become so much a part of my routine to go and see what all of you are doing … but there’s no more time.
I’ll turn off the rest shortly. I need to use what time I have to get things in order. There’s lots still to do. The time has come to get my house in order, literally and figuratively.
If this is leaving you puzzled because you missed part one of my ongoing medical drama, you can click the link and read THE HEART SURGERY UPDATE.
Categories: #Blogging, #Health, Anecdote, Life, Medical, Personal, Reality, UPDATE!
I meant to add. a good friend of mine call SuAndi often talks about ‘the spirit connects’. It’s her way of explaining the coincident personal connections between people is no accident.
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Ah no! Marilyn, I wish you the sincerest support and good wishes. I know we’ve never met, but you’ve responded and reposted my words like a friend would. You’ve also been one of a handful of people who has inspired me to keep on writing and for that I thank you Ma’am. All of what you have said here makes me feel a little ashamed that I don’t spend more time to respond to your blog, but as you’ve stated, the trivial, bureaucratic necessities of life do get in the way of people really living (I’m writing about it… but it’s becoming a book!) I hope your March surgery goes well and look forward to hearing from you again. Blessings to you and yours.
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I believe we meet the people we need to meet. Sometimes they become friends for a lifetime, often for a little while to fill a particular need. Every once in a while, life sends you one of the people with whom you will travel the entire road. I’m glad we connected!
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Take one guess who I’ll be thinking about and sending lots of prayers to on March 5th? Yup, you. You’ll be in my heart all day. Stay cold free will ya? Will be waiting to hear. Cheers to a wonderful summer ahead! Hugs, Deb xxxx
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Thanks Deb. Maybe by the time summer rolls around, we can go take some pretty pictures 🙂
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Very wise move, switching off mail notifications. I was only “offline” for a few days (and I have a dedicated email account just for WP) and I was inundated!
Here’s wishing you a very speedy recovery – catch up with you when you’re all better.
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You’re one of my last handful. I’ve been flattened by overwhelming email before — after hospitals, after vacation or when I’ve had no service for some reason. It’s kind of ghastly, so I’m trying to at least keep it from becoming … the Everest of email 🙂 I should use the dedicated WP email address. I’ve got one, but didn’t one yet ANOTHER account. But it might come to that. Thanks 🙂
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By what you’ve been through & gotten through in your life already – I know you’ve got this Marilyn.
Wishing you the best & sending positive thoughts & vibes for a smooth surgery & recovery.
Throwing in some prayers & fairy dust too 😉
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Thanks sweetie. Now, if I just don’t come down with Garry’s cold … and Garry gets a little bit better because this is a bad way to begin this big adventure. Oh, and the car needs tires and the windshield cracked this morning. Just for fun.
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I will be stopping by and reading whatever Garry and Rich are writing about, I especially want to hear updates about how you are progressing in your healing. Know that you are and will be in my thoughts and prayers!!!!
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Thanks. Now it’s all in the hands of the germ deities as Garry has a nasty cold. If I don’t pick it up, all will proceed according to plans. If I get sick … well … We’ll see. So far, so good. And thanks again. When all of this is over, if I still HAVE breasts, I will order glue-on nipples. I wish they made them in entertaining patterns 🙂
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That’s why there are plain old “stickers”, you know, the kind our grandchildren play with… heck, there’s Minnie Mouse, Barbie, the Princesses… 😉
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Minnie Mouse. That might work!
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Of course! And, I think she had a shoe fetish too! 😉
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And she was my favorite timepiece 🙂
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Lots of hugs Marilyn, you are a very positive person and I believe you will be able to pass this phase strongly with the help and support of your loved ones. Wish and pray for your good and healthy recovery. 🙂
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Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this journey. Your posts are always so uplifting and I, like you, do not always comment but I do notice you! Good luck with all things heart related. ❤
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Thank you. I’m in the “waiting to see if this goes off on time” period as Garry is down with a bad head/chest cold that I hope I do not catch. If I do, everything is going to get delayed and I don’t want to delay anything at this. I just want to get through it and start recovering so by summer, I’ll be a person again. Thank you and thank you for your prayers. ALL prayers are welcome 🙂
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Absolutely, Marilyn. Holding you close in prayer. I know the power. 🙂
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Will be thinking of you, Marilyn – and you WILL be missed, but hugs in anticipation of your return to this site! xxx
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If I don’t catch Garry’s cold … So far, so good. I’m planning a triumphal re-entry 🙂
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We’ll young Lady, finally your on the path to feeling better. I’m in awe of your bravery to take thus step. Yes you could have chosen to let it just be, so hats tossed in the air to you.
Prayers and air hugs to you.
You are a very good soul with a heart of gold.
Will be thinking of you.
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Thanks Patti. I think I’m not so much brave as realistic. I don’t a lot of choices if I want to live. And I DO want to live, so … I do what I must. But I hope I’m allowed to at least complain about it 😉
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I think you’re very thoughtful in all that you do. I wish you well.
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Thank you!
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Been offline lately. Will catch up tomorrow, I hope. Hugs!
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Have missed you!!
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So sorry to read about this. With you it’s heart surgery, with my daughter it’s breast cancer. hope to reconnect when you are feeling better.Bless you!
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Please give your daughter my kindest regards. I had breast cancer two and a half years ago and so far, so good. With good medical care, it’s a battle that is often winnable.
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