Binding Judgment
Does it ever make sense to judge a book by its cover — literally or metaphorically? Tell us about a time you did, and whether that was a good decision or not.
Don’t know about books. So many books don’t really have covers anymore! Houses, though … I’ve fallen in love with houses because they were beautiful only to discover they were falling to pieces underneath. Sometimes after I had already bought them, which (lemme tell ya) is a real bummer.
And then — there’s me. The cover looks pretty good these days. If only the stuff underneath were half as healthy as the wrapper appears. Ah well. If one must fall apart, one might as well look good.
If you look good, you get the surprised “Wow, you look great!” from friends rather than the shocked deer-in-the-headlights face followed by a horrified “What’s the matter with you?” That can ruin your whole morning. I’ve gotten both and I prefer the first.
Now, I need coffee.
I’ve made some embarrassing judgments based on outward appearances. I was stationed in Ubon, Thailand while in the US Air Force. I got on a military shuttle bus and headed to the gate to town and do some sightseeing and shopping. When I was through I became a bit disoriented as to just where I needed to catch the returning bus to the base. I saw a local squatted in a loin cloth and turbin right out of the movie Calcutta. In my worst broken English I attempted to communicate with that man who was originally from Burma.
I asked him in baby English when to find the bus stop. He looked at me and answered in the most perfect British accented English that it was over there and promptly proceeded to give me the rundown of the schedule. I was mortified. His speech spoke volumes about a proper education while his outward appears screamed beggar, uneducated and inarticulate. I had misjudged him based on his “cover”. 😦
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The worst one for me was congratulating a stranger on her upcoming baby. She wasn’t pregnant.
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LOL Been there, done that. Boy was I embarrassed!
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I have NEVER assumed pregnancy again … That was really embarrassing. I felt awful.
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Wowza…all that BEFORE coffee? You’re good…I didn’t realize HOW good. 😉
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It takes a while for the coffee to brew. If I don’t do something to keep busy, I stand in front of Mr. Coffee and drool. It’s most unattractive at my age 🙂
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You crack me up. That’s why I make my iced tea the night before — so there is no drooling. 😀
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Garry sets up the machine the night before, but since hot coffee is mandatory, I still have to wait for it to brew. Sigh. Let the drooling begin.
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Well at least he does that. I have the tendency to spill grounds all over the place when I do it in the morning. It’s not pretty!
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You are welcome to join our Klutz-out club 🙂
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sometimes the looking great can fool you into thinking you feel better than you do..and certainly after a coffee 🙂
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After the second cup, I start to believe my own publicity 🙂
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Reblogged this on Attorney at Law Jan Vajda Namestovo, Slovakia.
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Ah yes! Houses can have all types of hidden agendas.
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Often involving plumbing and electrical wiring (argh!) !
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Something I’m familiar with too! I hope you feel better soon. Keep up the “you look good”, as you said, may as well look good if illness is inevitable! 🙂
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It really does beat the horrified “OH MY GOD” version.
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Ditto!
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😀
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I completely agree and am the same, cheers to coffee 🙂
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These days, most things can be fixed or at least dramatically improved by a good cup of coffee. And maybe a bite of danish 🙂
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Absolutely! can never go wrong with Danish 😉
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