TEN REASONS I DON’T COMMENT ON YOUR BLOG

Recently, I’ve had to be away from the computer more than usual. Winter is over. Stuff needs doing and frankly, I’ve got a bad case of cabin fever. Thus my email, the daily deluge of notifications, comments, advertising, and occasionally actual messages from friends, doth overflow. To the point of finding it necessary to delete a lot of notifications from fellow bloggers of new posts.

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It was hard for me to do it. I’m compulsive about reading and commenting, or at the least “Liking” the blogs I follow. It went against the grain to delete so many notifications.

I tried to catch up with myself, but kept falling farther behind until I had no choice. Unless I’m going to spend all day everyday in front of the computer, I can’t handle the traffic.

72-Computer-in-use_01It got me thinking about why I comment on some blogs and not others. Following are the top ten reasons I don’t comment on your blog:

1) You get dozens of comments and put the oldest ones on top. If I have to scroll past two dozen comments before I can comment, you don’t need me.

2) You’re a photographer. I’m a photographer. I feel comfortable pointing out I can love your pictures, but not have anything to say about them.

3) I liked your post, but I’m late to the dance. Everyone has already said it. If I have nothing to add, I’m won’t comment. If you allow “Likes,” I’ll leave one.

4) I hated your post, but I like you. If I have nothing nice to say, I won’t say anything. I try not to be over-critical because it is in my nature to be over-critical. I consider it a character flaw.

5) If you post one picture per post 12 times a day, consider two posts with six pictures each. It’s not personal. I get buried by notifications, and comments. I follow as many blogs as I can, but if you post that often, you become spam.

6) If I’ve been following you for months and you never visit my site, I’ll stop following you. Eventually. It’s insulting. I don’t expect you to read every word I write, but if you never visit, you are going to lose me.

7) You write about one topic. Only one. All the time. It is your passion, but there are other things which matter to me. I can’t read on the same subject every day, even if I agree.

8) You’ve got a problem. Your blog is where you let your feelings be known. First, I will be sympathetic. Then I’ll try to help. Eventually, I’ll give up. You are free to complain. I’m free to not listen. At some point, you have to move on. See number 7.

9) You’ve had a “sense-of-humorectomy.” You used to be funny, but now you’re an angry ranter. I have a limited capacity for rage. Even my own. I get mad, but I get over it. After I stop being angry, I find my drama funny. If you can’t get past your rage, I’ll get over you. Sorry.

10) More than half your posts are reblogs. I follow you because I like you. We all reblog some stuff but if that’s your primary material, you won’t hear from me.

I love comments and dialogue, but I think it’s a mistake to demand comments from every visitor. Personally, I think we should take our “Likes” and be grateful. It means people are reading and visiting. I don’t expect everyone to comment on everything, though I appreciate an occasional word so I know someone is there.

Now you know. In case you were wondering.



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63 replies

  1. The last three weeks have been unusually busy for me, work-wise and I also had a house full of guests (up to 14 of them, the entire time, shew! The next month is not looking any quieter either), keeping us up ’till the wee hours every night. I was exhausted. My in-box was filling at what seemed an exponential rate and I simply didn’t have time to read everything! One evening I was almost at the point of tears over this and I realised I needed to get things into perspective. Sit back, breathe and enjoy the here and now. Blogging is supposed to be fun; it’s not a competition.

    And compared to you I have a teeny, tiny following! I honestly don’t know how you do it and I empathise with your frustrations. (and I also understand if you don’t reply to my comment 😉 )

    I see some bloggers disable comments after a certain period of time – could that help?

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    • I have comments automatically turned off after a certain number of weeks. The post is always available to be read, but no longer accepts comments. But by then, usually, there aren’t many comments coming in any more.

      I just need to take a vacation and let everyone know I won’t be able to answer for a couple of weeks. I think I just need some time off.

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  2. Hi, Marilyn, I’m glad to meet you via nonsmokingladybug’s reblog. There is a lot of helpful points made in this post. Have you tried unroll.me ? It helps keep my inbox clean which, in turn, keeps me sane 😀

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  3. I read all the comments on the comments. Now I am exhausted. You are so right. I used to say when I was working full time, “When do I get time for myself?” And now as a retiree? No time…

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    • I’m trying to figure out how to reclaim some (more) of my life. I’m working it out. It’s not like I’ve got so many other things demanding my attention, but I do a bit less of a routine. And a bit more time away from the computer.

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  4. I copied and pasted this on my forehead! Thanks.

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