HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MOM!

Dear Mom,

It’s Flag Day for most people of a certain age. Mom, “people of a certain age” is a not so subtle reference to anyone over 60 these days. But for anyone in your immediate and extended family, today is a celebration of your birthday!

It’s a celebration of your life and the nurturing given to countless people. Many still refer to you as “Auntie Esther.” It’s hard to separate fact from fiction when listening to stories people tell about you. I say print the legend!

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It’s been a busy year, Mom. Your great-granddaughter Kaity is a high school graduate — with honors. Headed to college in the fall, with nursing as her major. You could probably tell her stories about your days as a nurse. Kaity has a lot of your grit and determination. You would be proud of her. She calls Marilyn and me the “old people.” You were right when you said “what goes around, comes around.”

You were right about a lot of things, Mom. I remember the look you gave me when I spouted all that college stuff about world-changing events and how “old people” should keep up.

You and Daddy are probably grinning at the accomplishments of your “old age” son, Anton.

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“Tony”, as Daddy called him, is celebrating his 25th anniversary as conductor of the St. Olaf Choir. Anton is mentoring a new generation of chorale musicians. He has brought diversity and creativity to the St. Olaf Music Department. Your “baby” is now an acclaimed international figure in his profession.

Anton and Garry

Honestly, I love teasing Anton. I remind him — publicly, when I can — of when I used to change his diapers. I’m sure you remember  that I wasn’t happy with my “big brother” duties. All my friends were outside playing baseball and I wanted to be there, too.

Mom, will you not interrupt me when I’m talking? Please?

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Where was I? Oh, right. Billy. He’s doing okay, enjoying his first full year of retirement. I’m not sure he would use the word “enjoy” but he’s maintaining the family home. Speaking of home, our house is turning 60 next year. I remember when it was brand, spanking new. We had just moved in. It had that great “new house” smell.

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Hold on, Mom. I’m not finished yet. No, I’m not interrupting. Yes, I know who brought me into this world. No, I’m not giving you a “look.” Just one more thing …

Marilyn and I will be celebrating our silver wedding anniversary in September. Yep!! 25 years — up and down — the best years of our lives. Yes, Mom, Marilyn is the girl — forever.

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We’ll be in Cooperstown, New York, for our anniversary. I’m still a passionate baseball fan and it seems just right to celebrate at the Hall of Fame. Marilyn made it her business to learn baseball after we got married because she knew how much I love the game. Now she is a very savvy fan.

That’s it, Mom. We’ll toast your birthday with PowerAde and PowerZero. Betcha that’s a surprise, Mom.

Please tell Daddy we miss him, too.

Happy Birthday, Mom!!

Love,

Garry



Categories: Garry Armstrong, In Memorium, Mother and motherhood, Relationships

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39 replies

  1. Congratulations on your anniversary. So much warmth, joy and beauty in your post.

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  2. What a beautiful post, Garry. Mom is sure tol treasure it… ♫HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MOM!♫

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  3. Garry, I enjoyed your post. Very much. Happy Birthday to your mom. Thanks for sharing her with us.

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  4. Such a nice letter! And maybe you are right about Flag day, I was just thinking that no one celebrates Flag day anymore. Happy Birthday to your mom!

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  5. A lovely tribute to your Mom, Garry.
    Bless all “Moms” and I’ll take some of that blessing too.
    Leslie

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  6. SOUNDS as if our Moms were a lot alike. MOM would have been 93 June 11th………same date of Dukes death. She was one HECK of a lady! KP

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  7. I giggled when I read “would you please not interrupt me”. I imagined you and her sitting there and my wildest guess is she would have interrupted you anyway :-). Great pictures as always.

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  8. I love this Garry- the way it is written, I love your reply to her” Yes, I know who brought me into this world”- can hear my own mother in that one. Thank you for sharing this.

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  9. How very sweet and I loved knowing about your family. Kaity looks so pretty.

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  10. Wow!, you pick on your brother Anton like I pick on my sister Anne.., the “Doctah.” We just ain’t got no respect…

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