SERENDIPITY PHOTO PROMPT 2015 #17 – THE PHOENIX
Frisbee Wednesday almost snuck completely past me. Where did the week go? We have been in a family crisis whose focus keeps shifting from humans to dogs and back again.
My family, his family, both families … all interwoven with dogs, old, sick, well, young. Without going into details, it has been very difficult for both of us, but especially rough for Garry who shows the pain less, but feels it more.
Meanwhile, the Daily Prompt came up with a suggestion we talk about tattoos. And why not? I’ve got one. It’s even relevant, packed with subtext and meaning. Amidst all the emotional and actual mayhem of life …
BODY ART: THE PHOENIX
I got my tattoo when I was 55. Definitely a late starter. It took me years to figure out what I wanted, then years to find someone I trusted to do it.
A tattoo isn’t a casual thing. Once you’ve got it, it’s got you, too. Unless you go to heroic lengths to rid yourself of it, it’s as much a part of you as … well … your skin.
I’d been vibrating to the phoenix for a long time. Having had my world collapse a few times and arise from its ashes, I figured it fit. I have phoenix earrings, pendants, and pins. What I didn’t have, was a phoenix as part of me. The younger generation were seriously into “body art” and dragooned me. It wasn’t hard to get me to join since I’d been thinking about it anyway.
My husband was amused, but not buying into the event. His skin would remain pristine. No tattoos, no piercings. He got through the Marine Corps unscathed. He wasn’t giving in now. Garry has a will — more accurately — a won’t — of iron.
I knew what I wanted in general, but needed a design. The tattoo guy and I created a design based on a variety of Phoenix patterns he and I found online and in books. Which make it a one-of-a-kind design. When he sketched it on my left calf, I was surprised it was so big. It covers my entire calf. I had something more petite in mind.
Well, in for a penny, in for a pound so. I did it.
When this prompt showed up in this morning’s email, I was delighted. Here is something I could relate to. Then I thought about it.
Taking photographs of the back of one’s left calf is not easy. Not only is the angle difficult, involving significant twisting of your torso into interesting configurations, but unless one is a lot taller than I am, it’s hard to get it in focus — I didn’t, but came close. Software did the rest.
Finally, it came together. My tattoo, in honor of surviving life crises and a brave hope for times to come. A phoenix engulfed in flame.
Phoenix doesn’t have quite enough flames. I always wanted to add more fire. Life got in the way, and now, I never will. My phoenix is happy. Long may he reign.
Categories: #Photography, dogs, Family, Humor, Personal
Here is my entry.
http://soulnspiritblog.com/2015/08/07/from-me-to-me-phoenix/
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It was worth to come back to see such nice portraits of your dogs. The tattoo is so vibrant and meaningful. I have to look for the photos which I can add to my reply.
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I hope your photos are better organized than mine! I can’t find anything anymore 🙂
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Just wanted to add your link : http://soulnspiritblog.com/2015/08/07/from-me-to-me-phoenix/
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I love that tattoo! The colors and the meaning behind it are so beautiful.
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Thanks. It took three days to complete it, from the outline, to the layers of color. I doubt I’d do it again, but I’m glad I did it once. It’s MY phoenix 🙂 My very own.
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Oh, that figures. I spent an hour the other day looking through hundreds of posts on your blog to screen capture all your doggy’s best portraits and now you put together a post that has a collection of them all. LOL
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Bob, I have 100,000 pictures and I’m lucky if I can find a couple of dozen. I have no structure, no keywords, nothing but lots of folders with dates on them and occasionally, some other bit of information. I look at the mess, and I just want to go take a nap.
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Because I used to shoot weddings and family portraits professionally I had to develop a system to organize everything 20 years ago. It carried over to the digital age as well.
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I never thought about organizing. I just put the folders on one hard drive after another basically by date or sometimes, location or event. Mostly date. I never imagined I wouldn’t remember what happened in 2009. Or worse, 2005.
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Love your photos but sorry to hear about things not going well for those you love. A phoenix does seem like a good choice- and a colorful one at that!
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Thanks. It is one of those things. It’s just things don’t usually all happen at the same time. I’m trying to remember to breathe. The phoenix is still my special bird.
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Like Garry I am tattoo-less, could be a commitment thing in my case! But that is one fine Phoenix.
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Thank you. Garry admires it. He just doesn’t want one of his own. Besides, he has me, so he he has got one, by proxy 😉
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My daughter wants to give me a tattoo for Christmas – a semi-colon which is in support of Mental Illnesses. I have decided though, to dye my hair purple – just because I can. I love your tattoo. At least the colour is still strong. My ex had tattoos on both arms and after 20 years the colours had faded to the point of being just black outlines. So he went and got the colours redone when we got married.
I hope your babies are improving. It is always hard when they are sick.
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Sadly, the furry kids aren’t going to get better. Old age isn’t curable and I don’t think Amber’s cancer or Bishop’s arthritis are going away either.
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So sorry to hear that.
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It’s really a bummer. Three out of four. We are not dealing with it well.
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Long may he reign indeed. 🙂 Love the pictures of your furbabies too!
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As long as we keep rising! That’s the trick.
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Love these photos of your furry family with Garry. Love the tattoo also. I have a Phoenix collection, mostly jewelry. After my 3rd divorce I legally changed my last name to Phoenix, for similar reasons for your tattoo choice. I’m sorry about your recent challenges and am sending warm hugs your way.
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As mom always said, “This too shall pass.” And it will. I wouldn’t mind sleeping through to the other side, but I guess that’s not an option.
Yes, the phoenix is a very good symbol for those of us who have had to come back — again and again. Haven’t heard from you in a while. i do hope all is well with you. It sounded like you were in a good place last we chatted.
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That is a fine looking phoenix. It’s definitely a lot better than most of the tattoos I see on the hipster crowd these days… many of which I’m sure were decided on with not much thought and probably a lot of alcohol. And their tats will never look as good as yours when they reach your age… your patience paid off.
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It was a very long and winding trail. I don’t like most tattoos. I think they are silly. I particularly like the names of former relationships — boyfriends, girlfriends — crossed out and the next one added. Class. That’s really classy.
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Who needs to keep notches on a bedpost anymore when you can just add them to your arm?
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I know, really. I thought the gun was bad enough.
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I would have sworn you would have an Native American tattoo, but I think the Phoenix is a great idea. I love it, I wish I wouldn’t be such a chicken-shit. I am kinda with Garry on the tattoo thing.
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If I were Native, I’d have a native tattoo, but I’ve always felt uncomfortable about borrowing symbols from other people’s culture, especially when I am not entirely sure what they mean. I did however, built that teepee. And the jewelry, well, that’s mine!
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I like the Phoenix, I like it a lot.
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It’s a nice piece of art. And it’s enough. I don’t feel I need more 😉
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Tadahhhhh….two flies with one stone 🙂
https://nonsmokingladybug.wordpress.com/2015/08/05/its-complicated/
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I got so lost in yesterday’s stuff, I forgot about today. It got suddenly SO busy, I was totally swamped.
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You have a beautiful Phoenix Marilyn 😀
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Thank you. It’s huge, but surprisingly, hardly anyone ever notices it. Weird, huh?
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Maybe you don’t wear clothe, so it is easy to see and enjoy…
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That would scare the bejeezus out of the natives. Yikes. Me, without clothing. Maybe 50 years ago. MAYBE.
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You can still use pants to around the knee, after your own taste of course, then it would be possible to see your nice Phoenix 🙂
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Oh, yes, well that would work 🙂
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Well, thanks for this little thingy which definitely boosts my spirits! I feel like Arthur Miller’s protagonist in “All My (Furry) Children”. At least I’m not Willy Loman — out there “on a shoe string and a smile”.
Tats? Never on me. Told that to a gnarly, old Gyrene who tried to convince me during my basic training stint @ Parris Island. But, I love looking at them, especially on lovely ladies like you and Abby.
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Awww, you’re just saying that …
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And from Evil Squirrel — a little (very) soft porn for a Wednesday afternoon.
http://evilsquirrelsnest.com/2015/08/05/asses-for-the-masses/
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OOh, nice tattoo Marilyn. I’m not sure that I would do that myself. My ears are pierced for earrings but that’s it.
Leslie
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It took me a very long time to decide. I’m sure I wouldn’t do it again, but I am glad I did it that once, at least. It is a nice one and it means something to me.
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I can see how difficult it would be to decide what it was going to be. The one you chose is very artistic.
Leslie
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It’s a bit of a compilation of several designs. It is unique, or was. The artist kept the stencil, so probably he redid it a few times after me … but I was at least the first and the original 🙂
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Yes, well, it is a very nice tattoo and I think you have placed it well. I like the colours. You have a lovely collection of dogs and I hope your problems eventually sort themselves out.
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Everything will sort out, but it has been a rough few weeks and there are a couple more to go before we emerge into the light. Having pets sick — as you well know — is like having a sick child and these days, our dogs ARE our children. They are doing what dogs do. Grow old. The problem is, they all seem to be doing it at the same time, which is very difficult for us. I feel like be are being bombed and am having a lot of trouble focusing on anything else. It’ll be better, but it will be a couple of weeks before the processing is complete.
I love the tattoo. I just wish I’d added more flames. These days, my skin is so ultra sensitive, I wouldn’t dare.
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Between our furry family and our human families, this is a test of our grit.
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I don’t think the Duke would be impressed with me.
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I disagree. I believe he would.
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I would like YOU to be right.
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