CHANGING PERSPECTIVE

Perspective

1 Corinthians

11   When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

12   For now we see as in a mirror darkly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I too am known.

I’m not usually big on quoting the bible, but sometimes — and this is one of those times — no place says it better.

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I was an “old” child. When I was very young, I talked like a much older person. I read “adult person” literature and thought of myself as very mature. I wasn’t. I was intellectually precocious, but still a child. Who used big words and almost understood many adult things.

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Almost. There are a whole lot of things that simply don’t make sense until you’ve lived a life. Reading about life isn’t living it. A child, no matter how smart, is never more mature than his or her years and experience. That’s perspective.

Perspective isn’t static. At 10, you see things through 10-year-old eyes. As years and decades roll on, you see the same things differently, sometimes extremely so. Perhaps you really do see through a glass darkly. Or you should. If decades of living don’t change your perspective, something is wrong — with you or the life you’ve lived. We are supposed to change. The only things that don’t change are dead.

I hear people my age or even younger saying “Well, that’s the way I am. I’m not going to change.”

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There’s a terrible finality in that statement. A sad finality, like a eulogy for “self.”

Someday, I’ll be too old or sick for change. The end comes to everyone. But until then, I hope my perspective keeps changing. I hope I revise my opinions often and contradict myself frequently.

Perspective.

11 thoughts on “CHANGING PERSPECTIVE

  1. Marilyn,
    This is truly a wonderful post- a good perspective on life. I believe as you do that change is needed, though not often welcome, change is what makes us grow and see things different from what we thought yesterday. That I would say is human evolution as one matures.
    If a person is stuck on wanting things today as they were yesterday because yesterday was good, then his perspective is stuck on yesterday. Unless we give today a chance, how can we know if today is better than yesterday ?
    Susie

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    • Our whole town was stuck in the 1950s for several decades. VERY recently, someone on the town council woke up and realized if we didn’t move forward, the town would wither away. So now, we’re inching forward into “now.” A lot of my fellow townspeople — and quite a few virtual friends — need to do the same!

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