What’s the most important room in the house for men?
Many would say it’s the living room. It’s got the television and the important remotes to find the “game.”
That’s not true for all guys. One of the first things I look for when visiting is the bathroom. How quickly can it be accessed? This is probably what Wolf Blitzer checks first in his “Situation Room.” Breaking news waits until Wolf is sure the bathroom is near and everything is working.
It’s not for nothing that for men, the bathroom is known as “The Throne Room.” Many of our most important decisions are made in that room as we conduct “business.” We practice speeches, mentally edit stories, and dig into our brains for new ideas.
Time flies by quickly while seated on the throne. As we are making life-altering decisions, seconds, minutes and hours fly by like rogue asteroids in outer space.
As a kid, my Dad would frequently yell, “What the hell are you doing in there? Are you rediscovering America?”
Actually, what Dad said wasn’t so out-of-line. We had one bathroom for five people: mom, dad, and the three boys. The first one in the bathroom ruled the world through the hot water fogged environment. I recall stepping out of the bathroom and fog with my Dad curtly observing, “Well what do we have, the new King of the World?” I’m taking dramatic license, but I’m not that far off, either.
My bachelor pad in Boston’s East End was perfect, for a bachelor. One bathroom. One person. No one yelling at me, no one banging on the door shouting profanities. Top of the World, Ma!
Early in our marriage, Marilyn and I occupied a Beacon Hill apartment. Swanky, right? But we only had one bathroom. I called dibs when we settled in. I was the glamorous TV reporter who had to look perfect before heading to work. Marilyn somehow staved off crises as I primped in front of the foggy mirror.
Fast forward to 2000 and we moved into our present digs. A one family house with 2 and a half baths. I quickly called dibs on the big bathroom as Marilyn shot me a look that could’ve killed.
(Note: If it could have killed with one look, how come I still only get
to use the room when The Man is finished, huh?)
19 years later, in retirement and the throne room is still a subject of conjecture. It’s still “How long are you gonna be in the bathroom, Garry?” I scowl. You can’t put a clock on throne room stuff.
The Throne room is about to undergo a facelift. It’s old. It needs help.
We’re not exactly in a financial position to glamorize the bathroom but it’s not pretty we’re looking for. We aren’t getting any younger or sprier and hiking over the tub is tricky for me, scary for Marilyn.
The tub is hazardous for both of us. As senior citizens, we have to be careful about getting in and out without slipping and doing serious damage to our fragile bodies. I’ve already done a tumble and fall into the tub. It wasn’t pretty.
I was trying to get into my jeans without support. It never was a problem before. Now, I was reminded that I’m an old fart who needs to prop against a wall or sit down while doing something as simple as putting on your pants. I vividly recall my head banging on the tub as I fell. There was nothing to grab. I saw more stars than there are in heaven.
In our “meet and greet” session with a bathroom designer/consultant, we discussed our needs, our very slim budget — and the upgrades we needed. We carefully looked at the ancient toilet, the grimy and faded floor, the additions needed for the tub. It would include hand grips, up-to-date shower fixtures plus a glass door to replace the curtains that reek of mold despite our diligent efforts to keep things clean.
We looked at different models with money the major concern. This is something we needed. Clean, simple, easy to get in and out of.
After some tense moments to learn whether we could seal the payment deal, we were told “YES.” We could move ahead with plans to give the Throne Room the look and respect it deserves.
Smiles all around.
There will be “before and after” pics to share. Meantime, plans for our new look throne room have us smiling – almost as happy as our celebration of the Patriots’ latest Superbowl win.
Hey, maybe Tom Brady may visit us now.
There’s more to this story, but we are still waiting for more pictures. You might say this is the surprise part of the story. Somehow, no matter how bad things get, something good happens. And something good really happened!
Categories: Garry Armstrong, Home, Humor
I know the bill will be tough to swallow, but doing upgrades to your home is important. My parents were in a home in Florida for 26 years and only updated the kitchen.
My mother hoped for top dollar when she sold but comparable houses had new bathrooms, hardwood floors etc. You’re in an arms race with your neighbors. And like the Soviet Union, you have to wait and see who goes broke first!
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The Weed, and a new bathroom … things are looking up! 😀
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So exciting! I’ll be looking forward to seeing the results.
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Congratulations!!! Those grab bars are MANDATORY for folks ‘over a certain age’ or even those of us under that ‘golden’ age who can’t stand up very well, who are unstable if we do achieve uprightness, and whose days of leaping over porcelain into a tub are well in the rear view mirror. Oddly, most of the homes in my community have those grab bars installed as part of the basic package, in my home (who needs those damned bars) none were put in place. When I complained, I was told that they could certainly put them in IF I wanted to pay to replace all the tile in the surround. Cha-CHING CHING CHING. Maybe I need YOUR contractor? Nah. I couldn’t afford her air fare… 😉 Thanks for sharing, Garry and Marilyn, and I’m looking forward to see the pictures as the journey commences!
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I reckon grab-bars need to be as much a part of a bathroom as taps!
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Nothing like a new bathroom to spruce things up. Can’t wait to see what you do with it.
Leslie
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Leslie, stand by for breaking news.
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Looking forward to it Garry…
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I can’t wait to find out the “something good!”
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I think actually it might be two something goods — because they announced on TV last night that Uxbridge is getting its own pot shop. That’ll liven things up!
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Wow!
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Uxbridge – “Top of the world, Ma”
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Feisty, we’ll let you know. Fingers crossed here.
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Safe, simple and mould free – I think that sums up my requirements too. Hope the new offices meet Your Majesty’s approval. And Mrs Majesty’s of course.
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Just the cleanliness! You really can’t get all the mould out from the old grout. The grout gets increasingly porous over the years and water seeps in and voila — mildew and mould. Merely not having to scrub the grout will be a huge joy. And of course, NOT falling over the tub would be a good thing too!
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Definitely. Grout scrubbing has to be one of life’s most soul destroying chores.
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That and drain cleaning!
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Oh yes. I expunged that bit from memory cells.
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Tish, this is exciting. Really.
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You could come up with a whole new world plan in there. We could do with it please, King Garry.
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