ALIVE ALIVE OH AS OPPOSED TO DEAD DEAD EW! – Marilyn Armstrong

FOWC with Fandango — Alive

Recently, there was a question in some list of Q & A: “Why is beauty associated with mortality?”

My answer was that being alive was generally more attractive than being dead. Maybe I watch too many crime shows (we are currently re-watching all 20 years of “Midsomer Murders” again), but I always think of CDI (I think) Barnaby asking the coroner “when did he/she/they die” and being told “You know I can’t answer you until after the post-mortem.” Or the same question on NCIS, except then it’s an autopsy rather than a post-mortem.

Either way, corpses are not generally regarded as lovely to look at.

First victim

My theory is that the whole “post-mortem” thing doesn’t make me think about beauty. I’m sure there are some very strange folks who think dead is delightful (funeral home directors?) (serial killers?) (taxidermists?), but I am not one of them. I don’t even like dead flowers and always put off throwing away withered bouquets until they are past withered and have become dried (but nonetheless withered) flowers.

Thus I am always glad I’m alive since dead is less attractive and less entertaining. The only movie I can think of where a corpse made me laugh was “S.O.B.” Otherwise, the non-alive are usual the subjects of a murder investigation.

Just saying. I value aliveness. The older I get, the more I value it. Besides, dying is expensive in America.

Author: Marilyn Armstrong

Opinionated writer with hopes for a better future for all of us!

7 thoughts on “ALIVE ALIVE OH AS OPPOSED TO DEAD DEAD EW! – Marilyn Armstrong”

  1. I agree. I can’t see anything attractive about a corpse whether it is a person, animal or flower. When our mum died Naomi suggested that I should view her at the funeral home, something I usually shy away from doing. Mum looked pretty bad in the hospice and she thought it might give me a better last memory which it did. I had to see David of course but I prefer to visualise him the way he was, not the way I saw him at the funeral home. As for myself, I would definitely prefer to be alive.

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