1 Corinthians

11   When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

12   For now we see as in a mirror darkly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I too am known.

Winter’s dawn – If you look carefully, you’ll see birds on many of the branches. They are waiting for the sun to come up a little more — then, breakfast.

I’m not usually big on quoting the bible, but sometimes, nothing else says it better.

I was an “old” child. When I was very young, I talked like a much older person. I read “adult person” literature and thought of myself as very mature. I wasn’t. I was intellectually precocious, but still a child. Who used big words and almost understood many adult things.

Almost. There are a whole lot of things that simply don’t make sense until you’ve lived a life. Reading about life isn’t living it. A child, no matter how smart, is never more mature than his or her years and experience. That’s perspective.

Perspective isn’t static. At 10, you see things through 10-year-old eyes. As years and decades roll on, you see the same things differently, sometimes extremely so. Perhaps you really do see through a glass darkly. Or you should. If decades of living don’t change your perspective, something is wrong with you or your life. We are supposed to change. That which does not change is not living.

I hear people my age or even younger saying “Well, that’s the way I am. I’m not going to change.”

Yeats' Grave

There’s a terrible finality in that statement. A sad finality, a eulogy for “self-growth.” Someday, I’ll be too old or sick to change. An end comes to all. Until then, I hope my perspective keeps changing. I hope I revise my opinions often and contradict myself frequently.

Perspective and growth are life.

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10 replies

  1. Wonderful insights Marilyn. I have changed immensely over the years. And still am. But I want to. Most people don’t. It is never more apparent to me how much I have changed until I meet again with brothers and sister and find them behaving the same way they did when we were kids. They have changed little and never worked on their ‘stuff’ at all. It’s shocking. Yes, change in inevitable. But we can certainly help it along too.


    • We need to WANT to change, to understand we can be better. And awful lot of people think it’s the world that’s gone wrong (which it has, but that’s not the point), so they don’t have to change.


  2. You know, Marilyn, I was exactly the same. A most advanced reader but still a child with a child’s perspective on life. I suspect that is why you don’t get child writers of novels, you need to live life before you can write about it. A great post.


  3. Marilyn–that last line. Some people would be so happy to say, “Aha! That’s not what you said before!” I do love that last line. Sorry for those who choose to stay stagnant.


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