We all know that everything isn’t fine right now but this song reminds me of times when everything was fine. I hope I’m still around when they are fine again.
Music triggers memory for me as nothing else can, transporting me backward like a time traveler to a world and a “me” I sometimes forget existed. I love this song. I like the words and melody, but mostly, I love it because it’s the song I sang to my son in the wee hours while I nursed him. Night and day lost any real meaning; sleep was catch-as-catch-can.
I was nursing, so my baby was hungry. He needed feeding every couple of hours. Sleep could wait, my baby couldn’t.
For the first few months, I almost never went to bed. My son lived on my hip, in my lap, next to me on the sofa … wedged just slightly between the cushions so he wouldn’t fall if I drifted off watching old movies, but ready to wake when he next needed feeding.
Mothering was less structured in 1969. I didn’t know there were rules I should follow, so I made it up as I went along. I was only 22, not much more than a child myself. Being a young mother was natural and unlike other things in my life, I didn’t over-think it. I was playful, young enough to enjoy playing patty cake with a giggling infant.
This was a good lullaby in 1969. It’s still a good lullaby, performed by John Kirkpatrick.
Everything’s Fine Right Now
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Who’s that knocking on my door?
Can’t see no-one right now.
Got my baby here by me,
can’t stop, no, no, not now.
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Oh, come a little closer to my breast,
I’ll tell you that you’re the one I really love the best,
and you don’t have to worry about any of the rest,
cause everything’s fine right now.
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And you don’t have to talk and you don’t have to sing,
You don’t have to do nothing at all;
Just lie around and do as you please,
you don’t have far to fall.
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Oh, come a little closer to my breast,
I’ll tell you that you’re the one I really love the best,
and you don’t have to worry about any of the rest,
’cause everything’s fine right now.
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Oh, my, my, it looks kind of dark.
Looks like the night’s rolled on.
Best thing you do is just lie here by me,
of course only just until the dawn.
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Oh, come a little closer to my breast,
I’ll tell you that you’re the one I really love the best,
and you don’t have to worry about any of the rest,
’cause everything’s fine right now.
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Love it! Darling photo of you and little Owen. “Everything’s Fine Right Now”… Great memories!
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I know exactly what you’re talking about. I was 20 years old and a new,nursing mother living in a G.I. trailer among a lot of other G.I families, the husbands attending the university nearby. There were only a few other mothers, all new and inexperienced. Somehow, our children survived!
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Isn’t it remarkable? We did everything wrong and our kids turned out to be good people. There are too many rules. Never mind social media. There are just too many rules, too many cell phone so that kids get zero freedom, and too many parents trying to manage every moment of their kids’ lives.
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Motherhood is a special time in your life. It was for me.
Leslie
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We didn’t have a lot of rules other than eat neatly and don’t sass adults. And do your homework. The rest was not only up to us, but hanging around the house usually got us thrown outside to go and “do something.”
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like play….
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Beautiful choice for a song. I was a young mother too, and can so identify with you. I’m glad I made it up as I went along, doing what my babies seemed to need.
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I’m so glad I was young when I had my son. I know it’s quite the fashion to have babies late these days, but how do they get through all those sleepless nights when they are turning 40?
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exactly, and as I always say to me daughters, ‘we all survived and that is something.”
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