There’s a common theme that runs through most sitcom episodes. And it hasn’t changed since sitcoms were first available on the radio. Lying. Humor is far too often based on people lying to one another – usually family members or close friends. The rest of the sitcom plot revolves around the liar trying to keep his lie a secret and the “lie-ees” getting close to discovering the lie.
At the end, the liar is exposed or the liar comes clean and realizes that he or she shouldn’t have lied in the first place. This is the synopsis of most “I Love Lucy” shows, as well as those of “Modern Family” today.
So why can’t anyone remember the lesson that lying doesn’t pay, from one episode to the next? Why can’t the sitcom producers and writers find something else in life and human relationships to laugh about?
I’m concerned about the prevalence of lying on sitcoms because children watch sitcoms. There’s no sex or violence so they’re assumed to be kid-friendly. But I think that it’s toxic to expose children to lying as the preferred way to deal with the people around you. It puzzled me growing up why grown-ups told me how bad it was to lie but then they all did it, every single week on TV.
Telling the truth on sitcoms must be like Kryptonite to TV writers. This gives kids a warped idea about relationships. It tells them lying is the common, accepted way to communicate. It says “Beware of the truth – it will get you in trouble every time!” Worse — the truth isn’t funny.
It reminds children that that the world is a scary and unpredictable place. You can’t trust grown-ups. Chances are they’re not telling you the truth about anything – from the inconsequential small stuff to the important big things. Children need to believe the grown-ups around them can protect and buffer the world for them.
Sometimes it’s not true, but children need to believe it. Like they need to believe in some version of Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy at some stage of life. I don’t think it’s healthy for children to absorb mistrust from the comedies they watch. I think this is what happens when sitcom people automatically lie rather than deal with the truth. It is also annoying to watch as it is the same plot repeated through every year of television.
Lying is ubiquitous on TV comedies and therefore I believe, insidious. Today’s kids are already so much more sophisticated, and at younger ages than they were in my generation. So let’s not teach them too early that lying should always be your first choice. Let’s not convince them that truth is to be avoided at all costs. Let them get through childhood before they become dishonest and jaded.
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Garry doesn’t like most of the “sitcoms” these days and neither of us are big fans of the old ones. I hated the ones in childhood because they always seemed to be about humiliating someone. Instead of laughing, all I could do is feel sorry for the poor guy getting dumped on.
We still don’t watch “that kind” of comedy much. And sit coms aren’t like that anymore, either. The characters are as likely to be making trouble as being the recipients of it … and I don’t like THAT much either.
Plus — all those shows do is talk about dating and who is sleeping with who. The kind of stuff that was boring in 7th grade and hasn’t improved over the past 60 years!
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That “dying is easy–comedy is hard” line is so very true. Gets me to thinking about what makes me laugh these days,,
The dogs! They’re good for laughs every day. Old routines. They’re master comics. Laughter even when I’m their target.
I am still FUMING — over the idiot-in-chief’s line, “Yeah, I think I wud’ve run in there…even without a gun..” I wanted to fling myself through the TV and punch him into pudding. This 4-F TOAD who couldn’t serve because of BONE SPURS.
No laughter there.
I find the lying in those sitcoms is a pretty good “moral drama” situation. It shows you some of the unintended consequences of one’s actions and as TAASWEGIAN1957 says, it also shows you what a bad idea it is to lie and reveals the stupidity of it all.
Very true, you make a good point. I often thought those people in sitcoms were just stupid but I also understood that it was television and not real.