My Favorite Films, by Rich Paschall
We all have to grow up and learn the lessons of life. Some are fun. Some are work. Some are terrifying. Nevertheless, it takes time and experience to bring a person to maturity. Many films show these various aspects of growing up. The movie may be a Risky Business or capture 400 Blows. They can introduce you to Harold and Maude or perhaps to Willie Wonka. You may find a birthday of Sixteen Candles while you are Pretty in Pink. You may even find a Rebel Without A Cause.
As a boy, a teenager and even as a young man I would identify with the younger heroes of the story, whether they were the lead character or not. When I saw Swiss Family Robinson, I was more interested in the young son’s adventure (James MacArthur) than the parents who were trying to protect themselves while stranded on an island. I was quite young at the time but remember it well. If you saw Disney films in that era, you knew there was a young hero for kids to identify with, who might also own a dog or horse. I loved those movies.
As I got older I saw more mature themes. Some are poignant. Some are jubilant. Some are sad. Since there are so many great films in this category, I could not cut it to a top 10. My “short list” had a lot of entries. When I subsequently looked at some published lists, it reminded me of others. There may be better ones that I have not seen, but these are my favorites from my local theater or living room screen.
20. Mysterious Skin. A young Joseph Gordon Leavitt is a teenage hustler. This is not your “feel good” movie.
19. St. Elmo’s Fire. The 1985 Brat Pack classic about recent college grads.
18. Donnie Darko. The 2001 cult hit stars Jake Gyllenhaal as an odd teenager.
17. Good Will Hunting. Matt Damon is the math wiz discovered by Robin Williams.
16. The Breakfast Club. If you served high school detention on Saturday morning, you get it. A John Hughes classic film.
15. Ferris Buehler’s Day Off. Ferris cuts class and comes to Chicago with a couple of friends. Matthew Broadrick is Ferris.
14. What’s Eating Gilbert Grape. A young man (Johnny Depp) and his mentally challenged younger brother (Leonardo DiCaprio).
13. October Sky. Based on the true story of a boy (Homer Hickam) who dreams of being a rocket scientist. Jake Gyllenhaal stars.
12. Big. Tom Hanks stars as the boy in a man’s body. The best movie ever to try this film trick.
11. The Karate Kid. It does not matter which one you see (Ralph Macchio or Jaden Smith). Skip the sequels.
10. The Last Picture Show. A black and white film about life in a dead-end southern town. The 1971 film stars Timothy Bottoms and Jeff Bridges, with Cybill Shepherd and Cloris Leachman.
09. American Grafitti. It’s the end of summer vacation 1962 and you are cruisin’ in your convertible and listening to Rock and Roll on the car radio. You might be getting into a little bit of mischief as well. The low-budget 1973 film was box office gold.
08. Dead Poets Society. High School seniors form a poetry society and learn to “seize the day” (carpe diem) from English teacher Robin Williams. The setting for the 1989 film was an elite academy in 1959. The film won an Oscar for Best Original Screenplay.
07. Billy Elliot. An 11 year old boy in a poor northern England town ends up in ballet class one day while going to his weekly boxing class. The coal miner’s son is in for a rough time, but sticks with the dance class against his father’s wishes. The film’s success lead to the eventual Broadway play.
06. Dirty Dancing. “Nobody puts Baby in a corner.” Patrick Swayze and Jennifer Grey get up close and personal on the dance floor in this 1987 film. It’s forbidden love and hot dancing. What’s not to like?
05. Old Yeller. A boy, his dog and another Disney tear-jerker. This one may be for kids but many of them will be crying at the end. Is this a good lesson for kids? Next I suppose you will tell me Bambi’s mother is dead.
04. Summer Storm (Sommersturm). This 2004 German language film follows the friendship of two boys on the rowing team as one learns his feelings for the other. It was a winner at the Munich Film Festival among others.
03. The Way He Looks (Hoje Eu Quero Voltar Sozinho). The 2014 Portuguese language, Brazilian film shows the difficulty of seeking independence for a blind boy who does not know the way he looks or if he will be attractive to others. His life becomes more complicated when he starts to have feelings for another student. Based on the amazing viral success of a short film, the feature was made soon enough thereafter to star the original three teenagers. We talked about the development of this film in the article, In Another Language.
02. A Separate Peace. Like many of the above, I guess you might call this a “loss of innocence” story. Based on the 1959 best-selling novel of the same name, the 1972 movie is set in World War II England at an all boys boarding school. The author is quick to point out there are no homoerotic implications. “It would have changed everything, it wouldn’t have been the same story.” It’s a love-hate relationship between friends. I have not seen the 2004 Showtime film.
01. Harry Potter 1-8. It really is the greatest coming of age movie of all because it is actually 8 movies. How fortunate that we were able to have the same young actors throughout the ten year film-making odyssey. It took all these stories for young Harry to become the man he needed to be to defeat the evil that confronted him throughout. Daniel Radcliffe will forever be everyone’s vision of the boy wizard who grew up before our eyes.
Categories: film, Movies, Rich Paschall
Reblogged this on Sunday Night Blog and commented:
If you need a good movie, consider these “coming of age” stories. Some are fun, some are sad, all are entertaining.
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The Karate Kid was one of the 80’s successful franchises. The director John Avildsen, used the same principle for Rocky years earlier, low budget compensated with a good storyline, plus scenes that helped the audience to connect with the story. I wrote a blog on the topic of successful franchises and brand/audience connectivity, mainly based on John Avilsen’s films: https://blogsandbirds.wordpress.com/2017/05/25/the-karate-kid-a-classic-franchise-from-john-g-avildsen/
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Would you consider these as coming of age films?
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Me? No. These are not pictures to which I relate. But part of this is also age-related. Garry has his own set, but I don’t think most of the movies we saw as kids were geared to our coming of age. They were either “kid movies,” or adult movies.
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I agree. Most “coming of age” films are only seen that way retrospectively.
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some of these films marked their respective time. I pointed out Karate Kid (1984) because it was done with a small budget and it took only 45 days to film KK in San Fernando Valley and yet 30 years later fans are still visiting the sites and listening the songs. It was sad that Producers did not agree in paying for Elisabeth Shue’s role on KK2 (a big brand recognition mistake).
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I saw them both and actually enjoyed each one.
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It’s going to be interesting to see what films, young people of today, are going to find significance to this issue.
Leslie
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I am not sure what is out there aside from brainless comedies.
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I’ll have to ask my granddaughter.
Leslie
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Yes, there must be some aside from Harry Potter.
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And she did read the books.
Leslie
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Many movies with a lot of special effects and no plot or script.
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Interesting, indeed, Leslie. I am curious yellow.
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I think books were a bigger influence to me than movies. I’ll talk to my granddaughter and see what she says.
Leslie
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I’ll be interested, Leslie, in what your granddaughter says. We could try that with our granddaughter and compare notes.
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Sounds like a plan, Garry.
Leslie
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Leslie, I just emailed our granddaughter. Hopefully, she’ll answer.
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I just tried emailing our granddaughter too and I think I’ll only get her attention on the phone. I’ll get back to you, Garry.
Leslie
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Okey dokey!!
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I just spoke with my Granddaughter and she said movies had a bigger influence on her. Her favourite movie ( off the top of her head) was Treasure Planet. Can’t say I’v heard of it.
Leslie
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I had never heard of it either. It is sort of a coming of age feature and it is animated.
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Thanks, I really should Google it.
Leslie
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Nor, I, Leslie. Still haven’t heard back from our Granddaughter. What a shock!
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They live busy lives too.
Leslie
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Old Yeller was a favorite of mine when I was a kid … which was a long time ago, before you were a kid 🙂 It’s nice knowing that there are younger folks who loved the same movies. I love anything about dogs or horses. Any dogs. Any horse. Or pretty much any other furry creature. But … well … horses.
But you’ve picked a bunch of other great movies too … a few of which are favorites of my son and of Garry. Good post!!
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These span much of my lifetime. I was little when Old Yeller was out, The Way He Looks is recent. I good movie will stand the test of time.
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I’d add “A Little Romance” to the list. It’s one of our favorites here.
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Ferris Bueller! One of my all time favourites… I laugh every time I watch it! I also love 8, 16 and 17… Looks like I know what I’ll be watching this weekend! 🙂
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I have seen Ferris a number of times. It is always entertaining.
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Another boffo list, Rich! This time I’ll try and stay on theme with my films.
No particular order —
– “Summer of ’42” — I was 30, I think, when I saw this one. 30 physically but maybe 17 or 18 mentally.
Jennifer O’Neill’s young lady and the smitten teen (Gary Grimes) reminded me of some one sided
romances of my youth, including a crush I had on my 3rd grade teacher. Gawd, she was lovely!
– “Stand By Me” — This is a classic for me, evoking memories of childhood merging into teen years
with blurred images of old friends and vows we made for the future.
– “Radio Days” — I grew up with radio and shared many of the memories of Woody Allen’s autobiographical
kid. I loved Woody’s reminiscent narrator.
– “A Loss of Innocence” — I loved Susannah York from afar for many years as my voice changed.
There are more but these are the ones that come to mind right now.
And, one should never forget “To Kill A Mockingbird” for Scout’s POV.
Thanks, Rich.
P.S. — “Old Yeller” is one of my favorites
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I forget about Summer of ’42. I loved that movie when I saw it in the theater. Radio Days was certainly another good one.
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