AND THE LIGHT WENT OUT: GOODBYE CARL REINER – Marilyn Armstrong

So many years of Carl Reiner, from one of the very first television shows I ever saw, peeking in through my parents bedroom door, watching and giggling softly through ” Your Show of Shows,” starring Sid Caesar.

Carl Reiner was always there, as a writer, director, and actor, he and Mel Brooks performing “The 2000-Year Old Man” was one of the funniest performances on TV and recordings.

I had a vinyl recording of the 2000-year old man. Then, I had a recorded tape and when that wore out, I bought the CD. It was never the same story each time. It was just something that Carl Reiner and Mel Brooks did. It was a “party story” that became a recording, a stage show, an ongoing story to which we all knew the words.

But he was so much more than a comedian. He was a brilliant and exceptionally creative writer, director, and actor. The Russians Are Coming, the Russians Are Coming (1966) was one of the funniest movies I ever saw. Touching, too.

Reiner won many awards and honors. Nine Emmy Awards, a Grammy Award, and The Mark Twain Prize for American Humor. He was the father of actor and director Rob Reiner, author Annie Reiner, and artist Lucas Reiner, and the grandfather of Tracy Reiner … and Mel Brooks best friend. All through the years, as their wives passed on, they walked to each other’s houses and breakfasted together. I hoped they would never die. I wanted them to be friends forever.

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In 1959, Reiner developed a television pilot titled Head of the Family, based on his own personal and professional life. However, the network did not like Reiner in the lead role for unknown reasons. In 1961, it was recast and re-titled The Dick Van Dyke Show and became an iconic series, making stars of his lead actors Dick Van Dyke and Mary Tyler Moore. Reiner was author of several books, including a 2004 memoir “My Anecdotal Life: A Memoir” and novels, such as his 2006 novel “NNNNN: A Novel. In American Film,” he expressed his philosophy on writing comedy:


“You have to imagine yourself as not somebody very special, but somebody very ordinary. If you imagine yourself as somebody really normal and if it makes you laugh, it’s going to make everybody laugh. If you think of yourself as something very special, you’ll end up a pedant and a bore. If you start thinking about what’s funny, you won’t be funny, actually. It’s like walking. How do you walk? If you start thinking about it, you’ll trip.”


There was so much more. Now, Carl Reiner’s son, Rob Reiner, carries the light forward. Carl Reiner, may you rest-in-peace. You brought joy to so many of us for so many years. At a time when laughter has become a rare thing, Carl Reiner made us laugh.



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12 replies

  1. I loved him. He was one in a million and I for one shall sorely miss him. He was a comic genius but so much more!

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  2. We also lost Vivien Leigh…

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  3. Ah pooh. Well today seems to be a designated ‘day of death’ for lots of different folk.

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  4. One of the greats

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  5. So sorry to read this. He was brilliant as is Mel Brooks. Perhaps that is why they worked so well together.

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  6. Another great talent gone. You have written a lovely tribute to him.

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    • He truly was — for me — an icon of comedy. Among my very first memories of seeing television of “Show of Shows” … and I loved the movies he wrote. He will be greatly missed.

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    • Patricia, I share Marilyn’s memories of Carl Reiner, dating back to “Your Show of Shows”.
      We just saw him in our binge of “Boston Legal”. He played an aging (70-ish) lawyer who sought court approval to be frozen (Cryogenics) asap. We learn later that Reiner’s character has ALS and will be gone within a year. Reiner’s lawyer wanted to insure he could return – in the future – as a brilliant barrister to help future generations. What a layered performance including a bright rendition — in court — of “Ma! She’s Making Eyes At Me!”.
      Rest in peace, Carl Reiner. Your next gig will be with the Better Angels. Surely, a good audience.

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