DEFINITELY YOUR FAULT – Marilyn Armstrong

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So much of Facebook is made up of irresponsible bullshit written or “sponsored” by people who figure they have the right to shoot off their mouths, write drivel on public forums, and yet bear no responsibility for the results of their actions. These are the same people who would probably think that shouting “fire” in a theater was funny. If people were panicked, injured or killed? It’s not their fault.

So whose fault is it?

Here’s what I think. You are responsible for what you say and for making sure you are understood. You are responsible for what you write and how you write it.

William Strunk Jr. was a professor of English at Cornell University and, together with E.B. White, author of The Elements of Style (1918).

You are morally required to make a good faith effort to speak and write the truth in such a way that others can understand it. You need to be sure what you say makes sense. If you aren’t responsible, who is? If you write a pack of lies, or half-truths, or rumors — exactly who is responsible but you for whatever misunderstanding will inevitably result?

Everyone is responsible. You may not be able to 100% control how others understand, but you can make your best effort, to be honest, to double-check facts, and explain what you mean as clearly as possible.

The casual, widespread attitude that it’s okay to say or do anything and if other people don’t like it or “get it,” too bad for them. This is the definition of how we got where we are. It didn’t happen from nothing and nowhere. We did not act irresponsibly. We refused to admit mistakes. We blamed everyone else for the problems we caused, then wondered why we can’t trust anyone.

If all of us refuse to accept responsibility for our own actions and statements, why should anyone be more trustworthy than we are?  If “it’s not my fault” — or worse yet, “it’s your fault” — is going to be our national motto, when you hear a loud flapping noise, it’s your chickens coming home to roost. The result will be that we will live in a world where nothing anyone says or does can be trusted because honesty has been replaced by bullshit.

It really is the writer or speaker’s responsibility to communicate. It is not the responsibility of your listener to decipher your poorly written and badly expressed language.

It’s not a heartwarming thought.



Categories: Editing, Ethics and Philosophy, Writing

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9 replies

  1. I know it’s part of the new vernacular or accepted slang – but I hate it when people say things like — “He is woke”. He is WHAT??

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  2. Leslie, good for you.

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  3. I wrote two letters to the editor of our national newspaper The Globe and Mail and one of them was published today in the paper. We are having a problem with exploitation of migrant workers. Recruiters, immigration consultants and lawyers earn millions of dollars by extortion, fraud and wage theft on low wage migrant workers. This is nothing short of slavery and I, for one, am hoping mad about it.
    Leslie

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  4. When I was teaching English, I made”Elements of Style” a mandatory purchase for my classes. It drives me even more nuts when people who know better speak ungrammatically. Our language contains a wealth of words, and most people use it as if it is poverty-stricken.

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    • I have owned at least one or more copies of this book since freshman year of college — which was 56 years ago, give or take a little bit. I also used to own the writing manuals for Chicago (manual of style) and the Microsoft manual of style (yes, there IS one). I don’t get picky over typos. I’m the typo queen, myself … but intelligent people who know the language and don’t bother to use it worry me.

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    • I also go bonkers when people speak “down”, trying to connect with their audience – be it comedians or pols. Often, they are one and the same.

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  5. Our lying, deceitful, dishonest, despicable president is counting on the people who hear his words and read his tweets to not take the responsibility to think about what he communicates, but to just blindly accept whatever he says as the truth.

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